Defeating Sin In Our Lives

Hello everybody, welcome to this week’s 2nd look!

If you were with us on Sunday you may recall that the sermon was pretty heavy. We were talking about destructive sins that we should seek to avoid and eradicate from our lives.

 

I want to repeat something very clearly. Defeating sin in our lives – especially the ones that are of the nature discussed in Ephesians 5:3-7; is never an overnight thing. It’s a journey. We will have strong moments and weak moments. We will make mistakes but all along the way God will be with us.
The big thing for us as a church is that we not be deceived.  These sins are a big deal and yes – we need to battle against them. So how do we do this? I want to share with you three things that strengthen us for the battle with these sins… These things don’t guarantee that you’ll always defeat the sin – but I do believe these things will put you in a position of strength to wage war and achieve victory and freedom. So what are these three things?

1)Honesty.

Truth has a way of setting us free. Jesus said “You shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.” We must live in truth. In order to see victory in our lives we must be willing to be honest with ourselves, God and others. Sometimes we need to be willing to admit that we have a problem. Some of us need to admit that we ARE the problem. Some of us need to be willing to admit that the way we’ve been approaching things isn’t working and that we need help… Whatever it is – it seems to me the most important changes that lead to victory and growth always begin with honesty. Unfortunately, honesty is often the last thing we want to move towards, but if you want to see more and more strength freedom and victory in your life over these sins, it’s abundantly clear – you must be honest.

2)Strengthening relationships

We cannot get victory without strengthening relationships in our lives. There it is, plain and simple. But what is a strengthening relationship? Here’s some thoughts:
  • It is honest. Folks in these relationships are truly known – the good, the bad and the ugly. They are real with each other and therefore can support each other when they are weak.
  • It celebrates and pushes growth. A strengthening relationship is one where both parties seek to help the other be the very best version of themselves that God wants them to be. They will not settle for each other caving in.  They celebrate and push each other to grow.
  • It is simply there. Folks in a strengthening relationship are known and not alone. This is a relationship where they are doing life near each other. Their families know each other. They are journeying together.
  • It directs back to God. The chief aim in these relationships is for us to grow and deepen in our relationships with God. These friendships inspire this.
Strengthening relationships are absolutely key to finding strength, victory and freedom from the deadly sins in Ephesians 5:3-7. Without them you will fail. I’ve never seen someone succeed in this without these key relationships. The question to ask yourself is: Who fits the bill of what we described above? If you have no one currently fitting that bill – then who could fit that bill?

3)Seeking And Delighting In God.

Folks in recovery groups like to say they are putting their trust in a “higher power.” The greatest power we have is actually not our own. It is the power of God. One of the key components to victory over destructive sin in our life is actually to delight in and seek God; to have a daily relationship with Him that informs and transforms us. It involves reading the Scriptures, prayer and other spiritual disciplines. This can be very helpful for you and very healthy as well. If this is an area of weakness for you; or an area where you feel clueless and at a loss, let me invite you to seek help. There are folks in our church who have a wonderful relationship with the Lord and would be very helpful in getting you on a path with God. This relationship is something Debbi talked about on Sunday – discipleship or Jesus apprenticeship.  However you name it – the basic idea is that this is one person helping another in their relationship with God.  We all need it…

 

In a few months we will be discussing Ephesians 6 – the spiritual warfare section. The truest form of battle against sin and spiritual warfare – involves us putting on the armor of God. You may want to check it out. Read Ephesians 6: 10-18!

 

There is much more to say on this subject but these three things will put you squarely on a pathway that leads to strength victory and freedom. This week – in one of the commentaries I was reading to do research they writer said: “We don’t just fall into holiness.” That really stood out to me. We don’t just slip up; or just stumble along then all of the sudden – wham bam we’re holy! We don’t become an amazing musician because we just had a piano in our house for years and all the great intentions to learn it. At some point we need to be intentional to learn. We don’t just fall into holiness – it is a journey and it takes intention on our parts. We wage war against these sins in our lives by making intentional, even risky choices. It requires bravery but freedom requires nothing less.

Have a great week everybody
And may God strengthen you as you walk with Him and serve Him

Pastor Ryan